Sunday, May 10, 2009

oh. my. god.

I had to make sure we contacted all the relatives first before writing this post.

Mom wants to relinquish!


For those of you out of the terminology loop (haha), this means she wants to sign her rights away. At the meeting, she stated she has done a lot of things regarding her case plan, but realizes she cannot provide the life her children deserve. She asked if we would adopt Christopher and his sister.

Insert jaw drop and almost falling out of chair followed by failed attempt to hold back tears


I couldn't believe it. My stomach did such a flip I almost threw-up.
PGM was there and I asked about her position on wanting to get the kids - you know, because no one else was addressing this MAJOR issue. She stated she didn't know, but it didn't seem fair to take the baby boy away from the only mother he's ever known.

But she didn't say no.

So Friday I meet with the moody CM who informs me even if paternal grandparents report interest, she and the AAG (atty for the state) will argue best interest for the children. some stuff came up during my side conversation with PGM (forgot to mention I brought her to my house after the meeting so she could meet the boy. I wanted her to see I was willing to let her be a grandparent, see what a nice place he'd live, etc etc) that led me to believe they wouldn't pass a home study, anyway.

CM asked when I thought I would start visiting with his sister, Alize. Told her I was waiting for the green light and she said "Green".

So it's happening. Really happening. I am soooooo freaked out!!!!!
Today we're tossing around ideas for a new name for baby boy. Alize with remain Alize, Ally for short. Her current foster home is pretty lenient with her and I already know my work will be cut out for me. She's three and needs to be potty trained, has some speech delay, and is a bit of a wild child. I'll start visiting with her during the week while my parents come over and watch the boy, then have her here, then a few overnights, weekends, and then voila'! A family of four.

Did I mention we may also take the 11 year old brother???? (0:


My Reality said...

OMG!!! I have tears in my eyes right now! This is such great news.

I am so hoping the rest of the process goes off without a hitch!

Amanda said...

OMG. I am *SO SO SO* happy for you. Yay!!!!

Lauren said...

Wahoo!! I hope you got my cry-baby message of congratulations. So, so happy for you!!! Can't wait to talk and hear the details!

Melissa and Brandon said...

Congratulations!!! I am so very happy for you. I will say a prayer for easy transition for your whole family!

Amanda said...

Any updates? Hope it's progressing nicely :-)

Gretchen Osowski said...

This is so great! It's all turning out for you. Congratulations!